[member="Aerin Kath"]
I'm not actually too familiar with your writing unfortunately, but since you pointed it out in your OP I wanted to touch on combat writing.
Though I've sort of found my way with her, I didn't write Matsu as a combat proficient character for a LONG time. But she was still in every invasion, every dominion, every PvP/PvE based faction thread out there. It's fun, even if I'm not dueling. It's a challenge, a way to shape and mold my character through adversity. In real life we all grow and get better because of adversity, and so do our characters! If you aren't comfortable dueling against another writer, then don't - you never have to, and you're right, it doesn't make you less interesting. But I guarantee if you try something you're unsure of you'll find you love writing PvE, or you love writing your character as part of the action trying to survive...and you just might like trying to hit someone else with a lightsaber.
And those are MY two cents. Hope to see you out on the field!