@[member="Elayne Hawk"]
Iella just sat eating slowly as Elayne talked, it is good, she is just as chatty as her and she smiled. So many things she had told her, now, in such as short time. Lots of conflict entered Iella's mind at the information, the culture one of dominance by the woman. But Elayne has a good heart, that much Iella can sense, but there is so many differences between the two, at least at the moment, not that Iella had any plans to change Elayne, that is one thing Iella does not do, to force a culture on another. But rather she works through knowledge, to form an understanding of peoples and their ways.
Firstly she would speak of Celtic, the most important thing for them all at the present. "If you could get her to open up, even a little, that would be a great step forward for her, it would give all of us the chance to be able to help her overcome her nightmares. Do what you think you must .. yes at least give it a shot". The mention of spells had Iella intrigued too, she had to admit. But there is time for that later. She hoped that Elayne are forming the start of a wonderful friendship and if that was the case then they had time in the future to do such things.
"A Culture where woman are superior", she echoed the words, almost as if thinking out loud, then she smiled and giggled. "I guess you can call what you describe .. making love", she flashed a look to Elayne. "I have not claimed Syn in the way you speak of, as that is not part of my culture, but I guess in a way, we have claimed each other. Oh we don't have marks in that way, but the marks we do have are the ones imprinted on our hearts. I love Syn with every part of my body and soul, and because of this, his 'mark' is on me, etched on my heart .. forever". She smiled as she looked into her soup, just waving the spoon around the liquid, thinking.
"I will be honest and tell you, that to have dominance over anyone is ... not a good thing, in my mind, my opinion I guess", she is trying to be kind and not offensive to Elayne in any way. "As for others .. other woman, no know him to be 'claimed', well I guess that falls to each other being honest and noble. To honour each other so we will not destroy what we have. I trust Syn and he trust me. It comes down to that. People do engage in their cultures outside of their worlds, in place that do not recognise such culture and I guess that is where the confusion lays", she thought for a moment, hoping she was making some kind of sense in her words. "We do have a form of 'claim', I guess, we call it marriage", she laugh now.
"I do have confusion with the notion of woman being superior, only in the sense that I believe in equality between the two sexes. Although that is not totally fulfilled in most parts of the galaxy, and women are still considered the lesser and we have to constantly watch our backs for violations every day, that is something men do not understand. In my culture". She said.
"But tell me. You are a very beautiful woman, attractive and intelligent, what are you hopes with this, I think you maybe looking for love? as most of us do or are", she asked, now with a fast growing interest in Elayne and her well being.