When I first came to the boards, with Iella I was only three or fours weeks in, with one training thread to her name when I enter the invasion for Metalorn. That for me was the best invasion ever and I had the greatest fun. To the best of my knowledge, there had not been any terms and conditions placed around that invasion (someone involved in that, and was admin at the time might correct me) and we all piled in without any PvP organised and with minor objective of taking a facility etc..
It was pure mayhem, enemy coming in from all sides and it was a blast. I don't know, but in those times things seemed more fair, people more accepting of events that happened within the thread, and I did not have any OOC drama either with anyone there or toward me. I am not sure why things have changed so much in here, we could probably talk about that until blue in the face, but they have.
I think there is too much importance place on the Map, and the map game has taken forefront in the minds of the admins of factions. Not all factions of course, and not all admins, but the sense of it is there.
Being a admin of a faction, I have only had the experience of negotiating over one invasion, and that went extremely well and without any conflict behind the scenes what so ever, and even though SSC lost that invasion it was fun. The terms and conditions of that invasion were kept to a minimal amount .. yes we had objectives, even paired up on PvP, because that is what the mood of the day was/is. But we did it with a lot of story line behind the deal. The Primes hit SSC on Zoist .. it made sense for them to do it and we accommodated that for them. SSC did not set out to loose, no we wanted to win but, it made sense that we did not.
Invasions should be story line based, character development based, faction development based.. not map game.
My thoughts... *hugs*