One thing I am noticing is a trend where some of the replies are killing off a character when "You grew bored" of them. But let me ask a question: Is that really the same? Sure, if you are bored with a character, kill them off. But [member="Sarge Potteiger"] mentioned how it seems forced. And I completely agree here. If you are bored of the character and just let them die, where is the drama there? It is scripted, pre-determined, meh in every sense of the word. Now I am not here to bash on this and say that it isn't the right thing or that their deaths were not epic, I am just wanting to bring something else up.
Now, this topic comes from very recently, and I have to say it was one of the worst situations I have been in while I have roleplayed. Now when I say worst situations I don't mean I was angry or throwing tantrums. I mean the feeling of having a plot all lined up, getting things ready, having so many moving parts and then BAM my character died. NO THIS ISN'T FAIR! IT ISN'T RIGHT! I HAD SO MUCH LEFT TO DO WITH THIS CHARACTER! This was my thought process and then it hit me....
That is the only way a character death can be meaningful. This entire plot I had orchestrated in my head was done. That was it. The character was dead and so the plot was dead. In my head, who cared besides me? But over the course of the next few days I saw the full repercussions of it. That plot snuffing out created new plots for other writers, all of the sudden my death was no longer a woe unto me moment, it transformed into a story for other people. Collaboration. And it was beautiful. Even though I was not part of the plot any longer I was unable to take my eyes off of other peoples threads because their fun, their writing, it was a direct result of my character dying.
Without trying to ramble too much it became something more than what I wanted to craft myself. It was the first time I truly felt like, as a community, I was collaborating and letting other people write and influence me without me even being there. The feelings of my plot just.... ending... I no longer cared because the storyline that came after it was so compelling.
In essence, I think that an unexpected death right in the middle of a plot you have, it is one of the most painful and enlightening moments for a writer. That is death, and in the smallest sense of the word, you experience it. You experience the death because it just ends. Its over. Just like in real life there is no continuance. I cannot explain to others why I died, how I died, or try and do something differently. It was just the end of a character.
Now not everyone writes the way that I write, obviously, but for me it was one of the most eye opening moments of my writing career and changed the way I wrote. You cannot force it, obviously, but at the same time I feel like that entire aspect of death being right around the corner is such a powerful writing tool and I encourage every writer, old and new, to keep it in mind.