(Un)Fortunately I am the ever-stalker looking at other people's bios every time I am a little bored. That said, Aster was one of those I've seen and thanks to your thread examples I could get a glimpse of what she's doing around chaos too. I think she is an interesting character, reminds me of myself sort of and precisely because of that I feel I can give a few suggestions ^_^
Now then, I understand Aster has some sense of duty, she takes her responsibilities to the Iron Empire seriously and understands she needs to learn to control her force powers. It seems to be that she feels she needs to be strong for herself and those around her(I might be wrong, just the vibe I got) and is concerned about relatively small things like "They shouldn't be worried about me" which is a characteristic that adds to the complexity of the character, however, being lonely is not easy, nor dealing with pain on yourself or pushing your feelings deep inside. For most people, strong or weak, the stress builds and eventually those feelings explode inside you. What does this mean? Well it depends, some people simply begin to cry more often, to feel sad more often or nostalgic, others might simply just break down at one point and cry as they never did before, others may just be angry, stressed and irritated.
If you choose to focus on this side of herself it could even expand her personality a little, how will she deal with this? Will she run away from her duties? Will she open up more? Will she hide even more from those around her? As a character with troubled past, Kal deals with his problems mostly by trying to focus on the present and the future, as the past doesn't have much to give him, his picture is suggestive in this case, a dark place, a shady figure(him), lonely holding the only thing that is beautiful and pure in that wicked place. What I'm trying to say with this is that a person can evolve in many ways.
Moving on, I see that she was involved in some dangerous stuff and the like, but as a princess of the Iron Empire, perhaps she'd need to attend to political matters too, maybe there is some feast held by a noble family, a good way to gain favor, maybe she needs to act as a diplomat? Perhaps she wants to learn more about ruling, managing or politics. The fact she is uncomfortable around men would pose a problem in this area of expertise, but then again, this is another way you can go, trying to make her overcome this, will she succeed? Will she fail? Will she grow to just hate men altogether?
Well those may not be much... but I hope I gave you a few ideas, I see you have some ties with the silver jedi too so if you ever need, I'm always up for any kind of roleplay and since Kal is around her age(19) perhaps it would make it easier for her to make friends or just learn something new about those "out there"
HOWEVER! As one wise man said: "Beware the advice, even this one." so yeah, these are mere suggestions, your character can grow in many different ways.
[member="Aster Rose Baelor"]