Sanya Val Lerium
Neutral, Queen of Her people, Neko
This is going to be one of those doom and gloom posts but it serves a real purpose. Recently some of the members of my faction and myself have been going through a lot of stress and drama due to other members on the site (I won't name any of them out of fairness but they know who they are) but these people have been so contempt on winning and been the dominant people on the board that they disguise their intent through IC actions through OOC knowledge. This is metagaming in it's ugliest form. Again no names will be mentioned, but a certain faction is using a memory from a shared alt to form a basis for an invasion.
Admins from both sides have been in talks regarding this, and despite the fact they are supporting this memory, it in know way makes sense considering there is never been any interaction between the two factions prior to their proposed invasion. No skirmishes, no bumping into one another, no spilled drinks on someone's fancy clothes; just war. Again, without prior interaction, how would one faction know another faction exists close by. Chaos map? I'm under the belief the map is for OOC planning, not IC planning when it comes to invasions.
Attempts where made to force their ideas onto others in threads with members who have expressed a desire to not participate with them, yet refuse to compromise; and when they do, they manipulate the compromise or out right ignore it; mocking others who stick to the agreement. We all came here because everyone on Chaos enjoys writing, Star Wars, and/or meeting new people. Not to be harassed or worse, having people sent into chats posing as friends only to turn out to be spies for another faction, using that to fuel their IC plans. Has the fairness of humanity fallen that far?
The definition of fun, just as bullying, varies from one person to the next. However, it has become apparent that these certain individuals have gotten their way for so long that when they crashed upon a group of people that can't be made to accept their version of "this is how's it going to be with or without your participation" it is met with hostility or worse, complaints made against them ignored by their friends on staff. Not all staff, certain ones.
I know this isn't going to go over well, which I have already long suspected that the truth will hurt. Their friends higher up the food chain, along with themselves, will provide their first actions to spin and twist it so no matter what it looks like, people who want to enjoy their fun here and escapism from real life are being unreasonable or just wrong; flat-out wrong. Or they will provide countless excuses to defend themselves, whilst lobbying for support to get others to agree with them. Then cast them aside when the purpose of needing them as been exhausted.
We've all seen some form of 'controlling actions' done when members didn't share their vision for a faction from votes to replace them barely a week after they got into a leadership position to just large topics showing how factions are dictatorships. Or through hypocrisy; claiming innocence when they become offended yet guilty of the same actions when offending others. Most will claim that haven't seen it, not until it directly involves them. History is riddled with such human errors based on the logic of "just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it's non-existent."
I come into this fully expecting it to be ignored, or spun to another's perspective so that they and their friends can have more laughs at the expense of people, while boasting to be pillars of the Chaos community. I also come into this fully expecting comments to be made from individuals claiming I'm paranoid to simple immaturity. Again, history is riddled with such human errors based on the logic of "if it's not happening to me then why should I care if it happens to others."
Harassment and cyber bullying with a healthy dose of spin so it becomes acceptable or even protected by certain admins is not acceptable. I urge those who have suffered the same thing to come forward. Only through a combined voice can the issues be addressed. Do not let fear or potential backlashes sway you from speaking up. Abuse of power is abuse of power.
I asked one of the hire ups of the site of how to go about this. This is the part of the discussion.
Me:
Okay also you have rp'd and done this longer. How do I go about rev and the ga.it's not just me but quite a lot in there. Even a new member to the forms said it's fucked up his words
Tefka:
Post a thread about it on the forum and let the whole community know whats going on.
Me:
Okay
Tefka:
That’s what I’d do, at least.
Admins from both sides have been in talks regarding this, and despite the fact they are supporting this memory, it in know way makes sense considering there is never been any interaction between the two factions prior to their proposed invasion. No skirmishes, no bumping into one another, no spilled drinks on someone's fancy clothes; just war. Again, without prior interaction, how would one faction know another faction exists close by. Chaos map? I'm under the belief the map is for OOC planning, not IC planning when it comes to invasions.
Attempts where made to force their ideas onto others in threads with members who have expressed a desire to not participate with them, yet refuse to compromise; and when they do, they manipulate the compromise or out right ignore it; mocking others who stick to the agreement. We all came here because everyone on Chaos enjoys writing, Star Wars, and/or meeting new people. Not to be harassed or worse, having people sent into chats posing as friends only to turn out to be spies for another faction, using that to fuel their IC plans. Has the fairness of humanity fallen that far?
The definition of fun, just as bullying, varies from one person to the next. However, it has become apparent that these certain individuals have gotten their way for so long that when they crashed upon a group of people that can't be made to accept their version of "this is how's it going to be with or without your participation" it is met with hostility or worse, complaints made against them ignored by their friends on staff. Not all staff, certain ones.
I know this isn't going to go over well, which I have already long suspected that the truth will hurt. Their friends higher up the food chain, along with themselves, will provide their first actions to spin and twist it so no matter what it looks like, people who want to enjoy their fun here and escapism from real life are being unreasonable or just wrong; flat-out wrong. Or they will provide countless excuses to defend themselves, whilst lobbying for support to get others to agree with them. Then cast them aside when the purpose of needing them as been exhausted.
We've all seen some form of 'controlling actions' done when members didn't share their vision for a faction from votes to replace them barely a week after they got into a leadership position to just large topics showing how factions are dictatorships. Or through hypocrisy; claiming innocence when they become offended yet guilty of the same actions when offending others. Most will claim that haven't seen it, not until it directly involves them. History is riddled with such human errors based on the logic of "just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it's non-existent."
I come into this fully expecting it to be ignored, or spun to another's perspective so that they and their friends can have more laughs at the expense of people, while boasting to be pillars of the Chaos community. I also come into this fully expecting comments to be made from individuals claiming I'm paranoid to simple immaturity. Again, history is riddled with such human errors based on the logic of "if it's not happening to me then why should I care if it happens to others."
Harassment and cyber bullying with a healthy dose of spin so it becomes acceptable or even protected by certain admins is not acceptable. I urge those who have suffered the same thing to come forward. Only through a combined voice can the issues be addressed. Do not let fear or potential backlashes sway you from speaking up. Abuse of power is abuse of power.
I asked one of the hire ups of the site of how to go about this. This is the part of the discussion.
Me:
Okay also you have rp'd and done this longer. How do I go about rev and the ga.it's not just me but quite a lot in there. Even a new member to the forms said it's fucked up his words
Tefka:
Post a thread about it on the forum and let the whole community know whats going on.
Me:
Okay
Tefka:
That’s what I’d do, at least.